Hi there! Thanks for the great comments on my Napa vacation posts. I'm glad these are inspiring people to put wine country on their travel lists! As a summary to my experience planning for our vacation, I wanted to share a few tips that I learned along the way.
Check out my post about Day 1 and Day 2 for lots of detailed info on where we went.

TIME OF YEAR
We visited the Valley the first week of June. The weather was perfectly sunny and slightly warm, but we were never uncomfortably hot. In the mornings and evenings, there was a bit of a chill, so we were glad we had light sweaters or scarves.
Visiting during the week is the way to go. We didn't see any crowds or experience any traffic problems. From what we heard, weekends and holidays are a totally different story. After being spoiled to private experiences at vineyards, I don't think I'd want it any other way.
HOW LONG
We spent two full days tasting wines. We packed our schedule with 4-6 tasting stops per day, so by the time 2 days had passed, we were okay with the wine part of our trip being over. I would have liked to have had another day to explore the valley without a schedule. There are tons of great shops and restaurants that we didn't get to check out, so an extra day for strolling leisurely and making a couple of vineyard stops would have been nice.
WHERE TO STAY
I mentioned in my first post that we stayed at the Embassy Suites Napa Valley. We were really happy with our selection and I would highly recommend the hotel to anyone! It's located close enough to Downtown Napa that you can stroll to dinner, and it's right off the main highway for easy access to the vineyards.
CLOTHES
Wine country is relaxed and casual. Comfortable shoes are a must. I saw a girl with towering heels at our first stop, Hendry, and she changed into flops within 30 minutes. For the guys, linen pants or shorts and button down shirts are comfortable for the day time and nice enough to transition to dinner. Ashley and I wore dresses both days, and I was glad I had long dresses for that early morning and late night chill.
DRIVERS
We rented a car for our drive from San Fran to Napa and we drove ourselves for the first day of tasting. As I mentioned in my Day 2 post, we used Paul Bailey with Napa Valley Wine Excursions and we were very happy. I was given several names for recommended drives for someone to drive your car, so I wanted to pass these along. They came from friends of mine, so I trust the recs :)
Gerry Brenner: GBrenner@kmalimo.com
VINEYARDS
This is where the list gets long! I spent so much time researching vineyards. I had to come to the realization early on that there were TONS of great places and I would just have to come back to see everything on my wish list. I gathered info from friends that had been, other blogs, and read gobs of Yelp reviews. In short, here's what I know to be true:
If you like a more personal experience, avoid just about anything off the main highway. Chances are, the name brands you recognize are the big tourist traps, and your favorite vineyards will likely be producing wines you've never heard of (because they aren't available to everyone).
Visit a variety of places. We saw a mix of large and small productions, and a variety of approaches. Some wineries are barreling, bottling and tasting facilities without any vines on site (which is totally okay), and some places are just tasting rooms with a sample of wines from all kinds of producers. Visit a mixture to learn the most.
Make an agenda and make appointments. Find out which places accept
appointments and make them. Some places don't require it, but most offer
it. Make it easy on yourself and lock down some times. This will
prevent the disappointment of an anticipated vineyard not having the space the accommodate you. Also, if you don't have an agenda planned in advance, I can see how you could spend forever looking at your phone trying to figure out where to go next, and that's just stressful for a vacation! While "winging it" on most vacations might work, this is one place where I'd advise you buckle down and get a plan outlined. You'll be so glad you did!
Map out your agenda and think about where things are in the Valley. Ideally, you won't be shuttling all over the region, spending time driving versus tasting. I created my own Google Map and added each location I was considering and then put them in order based on where they were.
Places we tried:
Hendry* - Napa, tour and tasting
Miner* - Oakville, tour and tasting
Peju - Oakville, tasting
Domaine Chandon - Napa, tasting
Fontanella* - Napa/Mt Veeder, tasting (we moved around property)
O'Brien* - Napa, tasting (we moved around property)
Cakebread - Rutherford, tasting (we moved around property)
Ma(i)sonry -Yountville, tasting
* = places we LOVED
Places we wanted to try (and location):
Frank Family Vineyards - Calistoga
Shramsberg (sparkling) - Calistoga
Vine Cliff - Napa
Crane Family - Napa
Saddleback - Oakville
Caspar Estate - Rutherford
St Supery - Rutherford
Honig - Rutherford
Frog's Leap - Rutherford
Mumm (sparkling) - Rutherford
The Terraces at Quarry - Rutherford
Kuleto - St Helena
Cain - St Helena
Sterling Vineyards - St Helena
Duckhorn - St Helena
Merryvale - St Helena
PURCHASING WINE
One of the fun aspects of wine country is that you can take the wines home to enjoy! All places allow you to buy bottles on the spot and walk out the door with them. They also have wine clubs that they inform you about as part of your tasting. Based on the size of our home and where we are in life, we decided not to join any wine clubs at the moment. Keith doesn't drink much wine and we don't have a large storage space for bottles. Given that in the next few years we'll likely start a family, we didn't want to get into a position where we have a surplus that I can't even drink! But, down the road, I'd love to join a few.
So, we purchased a few bottles here and there at our favorite places. I did not pay attention to how many reds or whites I was getting, I just snagged what I loved most. By accident, we ended up with an even case of 12, which worked out nicely. What shocked me though was that 8 of those bottles were Rose´s! Can't believe that. I guess the combo of the warm weather and the delicious blend just stole my heart.
On our last morning in Napa, the boys went to Buffalo's Shipping Post in Napa and arranged for the wine to be shipped to us at home. You could package it up and check the box as part of your airline luggage, but we just didn't want to be bothered with it. The box arrived within a week and was very exciting to receive!

RESTAURANTS:
I had some of the best food of my life in Napa. AMAZING stuff, people. I'd come back for the food just as much as I would for the wine. I'm not sure you can go wrong!
Places we tried:
Gott's
V Sattui - picnic lunch
Mustard's Grill
Brown's Valley Grocery - picnic lunch
Celadon
We loved all of the above spots and did not have a bad experience or dish. We didn't go anywhere for breakfast because it was free at the Embassy Suites. There are many bakeries I'd love to try (hello, Thomas Keller's Bouchon!), but we'll be back.
The French Laundry is one of the most famous restaurants, and one of the most expensive. While I would have freaked out to have eaten there, at this stage in life, I could not have lived with myself for making such a poor financial decision :) So, that's on the bucket list for later!
All in all, I can't WAIT to go back! I'd also love to check out Sonoma and Alexander Valley. And, don't get me started on how much I'd like to explore the vineyards of Spain, Italy, France and Germany! Hah :)
Let me know if you use any of these tips, or if you have any questions!